Now reworking my UHF capable dummy load ("Cogent" mints box) to a new shape (top one on the picture)....

...the same issue arrived making me break one of the eight 100 Ohm SMD resistors (4 || 200 series), in the end I reworked all the load, because I was out of 100 Ohm SMD, to tree parallel 150 Ohm 1/4W carbon resistors. Probably will not go to UHF but goes nice to high VHF.
In the end this was the result:


Not pretty, but for now it works...
Another issue I got due to the poor manufacturing tolerance and construction on BNC plugs/adapters is this:
The middle pin is just press fit on the stripe line between the two female plugs of the T adapter.
It failed probably after the second insert in the dummy load, one advantage of this happening is that if you made a small coupler link you can make a bird style plug...
...always optimistic but next time will have to get a better brand of BNC's.